Release and Reset are our two most frequently booked retreat themes, and we get asked constantly: "Which one should I choose?" The answer matters, because the entire 7-day therapeutic arc is built around your theme. Here's how to decide.
Release: For When You Need to Let Go
The Release retreat is designed for people navigating separation, heartbreak, divorce, or the end of a significant relationship. It's not just romantic — it can be the end of a business partnership, a friendship, a family relationship, or an identity you've outgrown.
You should choose Release if:
- You're processing the end of a relationship (romantic, professional, familial)
- You're stuck in loops of anger, grief, or "what if" thinking about someone
- You know you need to move forward but feel emotionally stuck
- You're rebuilding your sense of self after a significant loss of connection
The therapeutic arc of Release moves from acknowledgment through grief, anger, forgiveness (of self and others), and finally into rebuilding. The ceremonies and activities are designed to support literal and metaphorical release — fire ceremonies, ocean rituals, breathwork focused on letting go.
Reset: For When You've Hit the Wall
The Reset retreat is designed for people experiencing burnout, chronic exhaustion, loss of purpose in their work, or the feeling that they've been running on fumes for too long. This is our most popular theme among professionals, entrepreneurs, and high-achievers.
You should choose Reset if:
- You're exhausted in a way that sleep doesn't fix
- You've lost passion for work that used to energize you
- You feel like you're functioning on autopilot
- You know something needs to change but you can't see what
- You're considering a major life or career change but feel too depleted to think clearly
The therapeutic arc of Reset addresses the neuroscience of burnout — how chronic stress rewires the brain and nervous system, and what it takes to reverse it. Sessions focus on identifying the patterns that created the burnout, nervous system regulation, and building a sustainable relationship with work and ambition.
The Key Difference
Release is about processing a specific loss — something happened, and you need to work through it. Reset is about addressing a cumulative state — nothing dramatic happened, but over time you've depleted yourself and need to rebuild from a different foundation.
Both involve deep emotional work. Both can be life-changing. But the therapeutic modalities, session content, and supporting activities are quite different.
What If I Need Both?
It's not uncommon for people to resonate with multiple themes. A divorce can cause both heartbreak (Release) and professional burnout (Reset). The loss of a parent can trigger both grief (Return) and an identity crisis (Reclaim).
Our recommendation: choose the theme that matches your primary life challenge right now. The one that keeps you up at night. The one that, if resolved, would create the most relief. The therapeutic arc is designed to go deep on one thing — breadth comes at the cost of depth.
If you're truly split, our intake team can help. During your pre-retreat consultation, we'll talk through your situation and recommend the theme that will serve you best. And many guests return for a second retreat on a different theme — often finding that the first retreat gave them the stability to tackle the next challenge.
A Note on Timing
Release tends to be most powerful 2-6 months after the event. Too soon, and the grief is too raw for the group work to land. Too late, and you may have already built coping mechanisms that the retreat needs to work around.
Reset has no timing requirements. If you're burned out, you're burned out. The sooner you address it, the faster you recover. We've seen executives who waited years and executives who came at the first signs — the early intervention group consistently reports faster, more complete recovery.
The Bottom Line
Choose Release if something ended and you need to process it. Choose Reset if nothing ended but everything feels empty. Both are 7-night, all-inclusive programs with daily Guided Transformation Sessions, and both produce profound results. The question is simply: what's the primary challenge you're carrying right now?